The Other side of me.....

The beauty of life is that we are wired differently, so no one person is ever the same with another, we are uniquely created, specially endowed with everything precious, so what you lack another has, no one person has it all, somehow there is something missing and that you want to see in another, it's this variety in us that makes life beautiful and worth living, somehow we are able to inter relate, marry , build relationships on the bases of these things.

I grew up battling with a lot of low self esteem , somehow I was never good enough, never good at anything, I see every body has been perfect I envy them a whole lot and I earnestly wish to be like them, this continued till I discover my true self and I began to grow with this new knowledge of who I am and that I'm good and okay in my own ways, it's like saying Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder , meaning somehow everybody is beautiful in different shades.

in responding to this week's prompt from the @hiveghana community the other side of us that nobody knew I would come with this that since the human mind is the greatest invincible weapon on earth makes it so powerful, for the fact that you see a person today behaving or acting in a certain way don't ever under rate that person because there is a side to them that you don't know.

before now I had come up with a philosophy that says,...

Nobody is a fool, it's only a matter of circumstances that makes people act and behave in a certain way, if only we have it all, born with a golden spoon born into wealth and luxury as we imagined i don't think this world will make sense

what i mean is somehow people are wise discreet and smart, the basic reason why people will act and behave in a certain way is because there is something that is making them behave that way...

every human being on this planet has a side no body knew, there are things contained in the human mind that if reveal we will be shocked some very dark secrets, things that they will rarely open up to another except their close confidant.

I use to tell people that, if you think you know me, please kindly have a rethink, because I can shock you in ways you least expect, I can be very mild gentle care free, jovial and everything In between, but then there is the other side of me, people rarely know, because I don't show it often, I rarely act in that manner ..

I was telling friend of mine that one of the things I'm very grateful for is the ability to control self, I believe I have mastered the act such that I think things thoroughly through before I act both the consequences, effect aftermath of every decision I take, this has found a way of making me not react to things anyhow, I rather keep calm and observe everything scenario before taking any necessary action .....

there is the other side of me I keep to myself and only showcase it attributes on rare occasion....

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