In some cases the words do not work in the upbringing of children is at that time when parents use other stronger methods and punishment arises, although that has now changed, I am one of the smallest of a large family in my time just a look from my mom was enough to grab minimum was the meaning of in the house we talked about could not be in adult conversation and God forbid I throw a tantrum.

I was punished very few times I think my mom used all her energy with my older siblings, however in adolescence we get a little rebellious we think we know everything at that stage was when my mom called my attention more than anything for the mess in my room I repeated it over and over again, I mumbled without her hearing me until the day came when I thought she was gone and confronted me, I had the bright idea to raise my voice and answer, my mom just slapped me in the face and turned me upside down in the eyes, I felt that my head turned 360 degrees, that day I locked myself in my room and did not come out until the next day.

From the punishment I got a bruise on my face, I had to go to school with my prize hahaha when my classmates and teachers asked me what happened to me I told them the typical answer that I had hit myself with the door hahaha, no one believed me, it was very embarrassing, It was the last time I gave a bad answer to my mom I learned that I should respect her and not answer back, but above all to tidy up my room, nowadays children throw tantrums for everything they are more in charge than their own parents, in my time it was not like that I don't know if it was fear or respect but my mom had an aim with her flip flop hahaha.